If I Could Describe It All
by Gizeh Ochoa
If I could describe it all, I would.
But no matter what words I choose, it would never make sense.
The pain of uncertainty…who would have known?
But I knew. And yet I was powerless. Speechless.
I was subjected to prolonged exposure to try to understand. To conform.
But I just wanted to forget.
How can you forget something you can never remember?
From the systematic oppression, I saw to the injustices I somehow knew were always there…
But what could I do? That is just the way it had to be.
All I had left were suppressed feelings and rehearsed responses.
But I could never control the insurmountable pain of guilt, loss, and incompetence.
I lived on pretending I was capable, like I belonged. Broken and confused…I was left behind.
I look at you and try to envision how you perceive me.
But through the blurry haze of privilege, I am barely invisible.
The constant battle with conformity, acceptance, and uncertainty drive me to you…
There are moments of clarity where I can piece it all together.
But I know that it was not my fault.
What a privilege to be educated.
But I am unsure of what hurts more, thinking that you know…or knowing that you don’t.
Here I stand to prove that education is a privilege.
But the understanding and acceptance of yourself is the price of your knowledge.